* drink at least 64oz of water per day
* exfoliate 2-3 times per week
* shampoo once a month
* deep condition hair weekly
* wash your face twice a day
* make sure you tone and moisturize after washing your face
* exercise at least 4 days a week, more is better if you can
* WEAR FUCKING SUNSCREEN
* keep alcohol and drug use to a minimum, none if you can
* pray or meditate daily
* keep your nails done, even if you gotta do them yourself
* read a book worth reading
* add a hair vitamin to your regimen if you wanna grow hair out
* trim your ends when necessary, please
* don’t let these niggas stress you
There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.
